My, my, my it's been one of those weeks.
I tried out a new job, had more than a few life stresses and a deadline, The Lad's 17th birthday, and I was determined to finish this quilt for him.
It was started oh, over a dozen years ago.
It began with an off-hand comment from a friend when our boys were just starting kindergarten. She was an avid sewer and we were discussing the wide difference between "girl" clothes and "boy" clothes. She mentioned that a friend of hers was saving her son's T-shirts and was planning to make a quilt with them.
Now I had never heard of "memory quilts". I had never made a quilt. I had taken a quilting course with my sister years before but that was as far as I got. But this comment had lodged itself in my mind and I started to put some of my boy's outgrown T-shirts in a bag and shoved it to the back of the closet. Eventually the bag was replaced by a larger one, eventually by a large garbage bag.
Every once in a while I would take the bag out and spread the shirts out on the bed, decide I did not have enough to begin and back into the bag they went.
I never actually "saw" these pieces as a quilt or even fully realised it in my mind; I just liked the idea of it.
Then suddenly the boy is not so small, 16 almost 17 in fact and the bag is bursting full.
But when you're 16 almost 17, there are stipulations.
No goofy baby motifs.
Nothing fancy.
No stripes.
Make that no patterned fabric at all.
In fact, just black.
Maybe white.
Dark blue if I was desperate.
I spend many hours just moving the pieces around the floor on my hands and knees trying to make the pieces make some sort of sense.
My felines also spent many happy sessions on the floor running through the pieces and sliding them around the floor. Just when I thought I had finally made it work.
But eventually I made them fit, cursing they were not all the same size but this was just not possible.
A few things I have learned while making this quilt:
Keeping the T-shirts pieces small is easier as the fabric stretches every which way. I did use a fusible facing on the back of each piece but they still moved, making the sewing challenging.
Use what you have. I didn't have designer T shirts to work with. Many were gifts or even hand me downs but I chose the ones that had meaning to him (and me! There were some he was too small to remember wearing), or were a favourite for a while. They're history, popsicle stains and all.
He especially liked the soft flannel backing fabric (off white, of course)
Do not pull out hair when confronted with comments like this one:
The younger sister, upon seeing me struggle to get the pieces to fit together says,
"Jeez Mom, couldn't you have just stuck the pieces onto a piece of black fabric and be done with it?"
There is one problem that I thought I would finally be done with.
The big garbage bag.
I've still got it and it's still pretty full. There is a lot of off-cut T-shirt left that I would feel guilty putting into the landfill.
So I think the next frontier is a large rag rug.
Now I have never made a rag rug and don't have any idea what I want it to look like but I have this vague idea ...
But for now, it gets shoved into the back of the closet.
To all Canadian readers have a great Thanksgiving weekend!
And happy birthday, my boy!


















